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How to Choose the Right Man Using Your EQ
   
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'How Your Sex Life Can Improve When You Stop Coming Over
Would you agree that coming over the top (in your golf swing) is one of the most frustrating problems to have in the game of g .....
Would you agree that coming over the top (in your golf swing) is one of the most frustrating problems to have in the game of g .....
To maximize your chances of finding the right man for you, apply
your Emotional Intelligence (EQ).
Approach it with both your brain and your heart. Its an
important decision that will affect the rest of your life.
Here's the LOW EQ way to do it:
1.Choosing the obvious ones to avoid: addicts, child abusers,
chronic gamblers, felons, boys, etc. If you keep falling in
love with the wrong type of guy, you need help. Please seek it.
2.Choosing by sexual attraction alone. Thats a choice your
reptilian brain is making which is to say not a choice at all.
Choosing implies weighing alternatives and being rational. In
no area of your life do you want your reptilian brain in charge.
It doesnt think. 3.Choosing by externals alone. Its nice if
hes handsome, but not if hes just another pretty face. Are you
choosing a 37 powerboat instead of a man who owns one? His face
will change; his toys may disappear. Its for better or for
worse, not for as long as he can buy me Fendi handbags.
4.Rushing. Date him long enough to go through actual situations
that test what you cant see and touch his values, priorities,
manners, morals, and interests. At first youll go to drag
races, WFW matches and duck hunting just to be with him, right?
Do you really see yourself doing these things every weekend for
the rest of your life? By the same token, is he being nice to
your kids just to get to you? Is he willing to go shopping with
you and to art museums? Only time will tell.
Success Through The Eyes Of A Child
Adults, with eyes to see, can learn so much about success in life from children.
When a baby is born, it has instinctively in it everything needed to .....
Adults, with eyes to see, can learn so much about success in life from children.
When a baby is born, it has instinctively in it everything needed to .....
5.Rushing. Give it time so he can sort out his feelings. Men
tend to go from desire to action without thinking in between.
This is why we see them make such poor choices in women, and
then do it again. You may be sure, but is he? 6.Rushing. You
need time because even a workaholic will give you attention 24/7
at first. Only 6 months down the line will you discover that
once hes got you, he compartmentalizes you. Work comes first,
then his golf. Hell summon you when its your turn.
7.Not checking out his attitude toward women. How does he treat
his mother? Your friends? His sister?
8.Trusting only your intellect. This means gathering facts,
listening to experts, not checking in with your intuition, and
listening to advice blindly.
Lets say your best friend, whos very perceptive, tells you
hes a womanizer. Id give that some weight, but Id check it
out myself. It wont be hard. Give it time, stay awake and
youll see.
Another example You made the list of what you wanted. There he
is in front of you, lacking 3 of the 6 items on your list, but
you adore him. You really click. Thats a good time to go back
and rethink your list. Youre always entitled to change your
mind.
9. Trusting only your feelings. Come now, do you really think
you can make a life with someone who is (admittedly) darling and
sexy BUT hates your religion, has different morals and ethics
than you do, has already alienated your father, wants 6 kids
while you dont want any, refuses to let you work, and has
already ordered you to get rid of your cat?
This is like allowing yourself to fall in love with a married
man. Just go stick an ice pick in your eyeball instead.
10.Misunderstanding the nature of feelings. Our emotions give us
information. They dont demand behavior.
When I was a teenager I was dating a creep. My father told me I
had to quit seeing him. But I love him, I said. Said he: Love
someone else.
No, you cant manufacture feelings, but neither must you obey
their call. They do not have to be acted upon. They can be
A Golfer's Diet
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Fuel for the golfer.
'A good diet can not make an average athlete great, but a poor diet can make a great athlete average.'
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taken under advisement" and thought through.GOLO GOLF GRUB
Fuel for the golfer.
'A good diet can not make an average athlete great, but a poor diet can make a great athlete average.'
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About the author:
Susan Dunn, MA, Emotional Intelligence Coach,
http://www.susandunn.cc . Coaching, Internet courses and ebooks
on relationships, emotional intelligence, career, transitions,
retirement. Susan is the author of Midlife Dating Survival
Manual for Women. For FREE EQ ezine, mailto:sdunn@susandunn.cc
with ezine for subject line.