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What Sex over 60 Can Teach You About Sex under 40
   
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Longer golf drives are the desire of every golfer. Yet this is something that remains elusive to many golfers.
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Longer golf drives are the desire of every golfer. Yet this is something that remains elusive to many golfers.
Yet this should not be the case. .....
Got your attention? Everyones favorite subject.
Ill begin by stating again a myth that dies hard: That people
over 60 [substitute your own age] arent having sex. Part of
this is that we just dont want to think of our parents as
actually having sex, no matter how old they are, no matter how
old we are.
Guess what? Your parents are doing it. So are your grandparents.
If theyre a healthy couple, that is, who enjoy each other and
are still enjoying life.
Sex over 60 is sublime. Sex under 60 is also sublime. In this
article lets look at the things that make sex over 60 sublime,
in a humorous way, because some of the things that startle,
amuse, and slightly embarrass you about your Granny are some of
the things that can make sex under 40 sublime.
1.Your Mom arrives at your house and youre having a discussion
over breakfast cereal, and she says, Monica, I hope youre
letting Harry make love to you with the lights on. Men like
that, you know.
Put the blush away. Shes talking, and thats what makes for
good sex. Older folks dont mince words. Get comfortable with
anatomy, natural processes, and needs, and talk about them
openly. Talking about what embarrasses you could be exactly
what could save or enrich your marriage.
And be open-minded. Some men like to make love with the lights
on, some dont. Some women like to make love with the lights on,
some dont. How will you know if you dont ask? How will you
know if you don't try it? 2.Granny comes to see your new baby
boy and says, Looks like his penis is healing just fine,
Elberta."
Those cute little phrases I wont go into are fine for bonding,
but they take something away in the long run. Call your body
parts by their real names. This will both empower you, and
demystify sex, and thats a great combination.
3.Youre appalled at your mother-in-laws lifestyle, and also a
bit jealous.
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Since her husband died 5 years ago, shes been living in a
resort retirement community. She plays tennis and golf with her
boyfriend, spends lazy afternoons by the pool, and they take
long cruises. She looks 10 years younger, has a glow, and your
husband says hes never seen her happier. When they come to
visit you, theyre always hugging and holding hands. You walk
around a corner and catch them kissing!
You MUST make time to approach this leisurely lifestyle with
your partner. You must create a space for what comes naturally
to occur, and in the midst of crying babies, promotions and
downsizings, leaky faucets, dirty dishes, creeping kudzu, and
dog-poop scooping, remember your dating days when you spent
hours just gazing into each others eyes and touching.
4. Your Granpa comes over and says to you, Son, you leave that
pretty little filly alone like this and shes gonna jump the
fence and go lookin. Whens the last time you [wink wink nudge
nudge].
The words may make you squirm. The message may too, because its
not about denial. Whats going on has been labeled, the
consequences outlined, and the solution presented. It works. Try
it. Your own style, words, and timing, of course, with knowledge
of your wife, not his or anyone elses.
5.Your Mom says, Jen, when I walk in here I can cut the tension
in the air. Theres something you and Nick arent dealing with.
If you deal with what comes up when it comes up, there wont be
tension in the air. Time and experience teach us to read other
peoples emotions, take the temperature in the air, and become
more empathic, which makes for great relationships. You can
jumpstart this process by studying Emotional Intelligence with a
certified EQ coach.
6. Dinners over and your parents are leaving. Your father, a
man of few words says, Anne, your mom and I are coming over
next weekend to take care of kids while you and Anthony get
away. No arguments.
Make this time. Money is not the crucial component. Put the kids
down for Saturday naps and have your own getaway. If there is
money, hire a sitter and go to a hotel for a weekend somewhere
with that resort community atmosphere thats letting your
mother-in-law have so much fun.
7.Aunt Grace is over and shes talking about her health again.
Staying on top of your physical health is important. Dysfunction
and displeasure can have a physical component. Start with a
physical checkup if your desire or capacity has faltered.
8.Mimis sitting on the patio with you. I just read the other
day, she says
Read, study, stay abreast of whats new. Theres so much on the
Internet thats easy access.
9.The secret to a good marriage? your Uncle Ben is saying,
"It's ...."
Unless you want a room-mate who does your laundry [mows the
lawn], get your marriage and sexual relationship out of the
realm of mysterious and mystical. Try telling someone you
cant stand garlic in your mashed potatoes without using the
words mashed potatoes, garlic, and cant stand.
If you have trouble getting started on communicating there are
wonderful relationship, marriage and sex coaches, counselors,
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10.Take it up a notch.
When your six-year-old daughter doesnt like the way you comb
her hair, she screams, fidgets, pulls away, cries, pushes you
away, runs to her room and slams the door shut, says it makes
her head hurt, and learns to tell when its coming and
disappears at these times.
You connect the dots.
Sex. It does a body good. Deal with it like grown ups do! Talk!
About the author:
Susan Dunn, MA, The EQ Coach, http://www.susandunn.cc . I offer
coaching, distance learning courses, and ebooks around emotional
intelligence. Mailto:sdunn@susandunn.cc for free ezine. For
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